Dating and head games
because in the end i was just another one of thoses girls he was playing.If I like a girl, and wanna hang out I'll tell her.
Yes, it’s true, as one of my (predictably, male) critics pointed out: a woman may miss out on some occasional spontaneous fun -- like fabulous last minute tickets that a guy has just scored -- if she has “a rule” against accepting last minute invitations.At best, it’s just laziness, lack of organization, or taking a woman’s time and schedule for granted.Either way, it doesn’t really make a gal feel special or respected when a man calls right before he wants to see her.Once again, a man who is just marking time with you won’t “put up with such games” from women – which is precisely what we want! So tune in next time for “Engaged by Christmas.” Meanwhile, women interested in learning the hard-to-get-but-easy-to-be-with approach to dating can try a free ten minute consultation for a limited time by visiting Men with lukewarm interest won’t pursue a woman who is even the slightest challenge – but not even teams of wild horses (much less a few pesky Rules) can deter the man who really, really loves you. Two can certainly play at this game, but when the on-again-off-again routine starts stretching into years, vs. As Greg Behrendt put it in : “What could be better than hearing from the man who just told you he didn’t want you in his life anymore, his sad, wistful, ‘I miss you so much’ voice on the other end of the phone? The game is a blast for both parties involved – until a woman finds herself wondering why the man who was “crazy for her” and “couldn’t get enough of her” has poofed after a few rolls in the hay.
Girl’s Game Changer: In order the separate the man who actually DOES fall in love with you at first sight and CAN go the distance from the players, a woman must pace the relationship.
GIRLS: if you like a guy, f*** what the other girls say, TELL HIM.
Don't beat around the bush just be honest, if he respects you, he'll appreciate it, if he doesn't well you found out real quick.
Girl’s Game Changer: Ladies, if you would prefer that the men in your lives gave you more advance notice when asking you out, then STOP accepting last minute invitations!
Why not just tell him you prefer to be asked out in advance?
You know, ‘cuz it’s all about communicating and being honest?